The story of a foster mom
January 16, 2009 3 Comments
This item came in yesterday and it strikes a positive cord with me. See what you think.
January 14, 2009
This is a matter that concerns the treatment of a mother and her two children by the State of Arkansas. Please, for the sake of this family, do not delay in giving this your immediate attention.
In 2005 Miriam Ashley Moore became the foster mother of Cheyene when she was eleven months old. Cheyene was the child of a cousin who had lost custody due to drug charges and child abuse. In 2008, Ashley was granted permanent custody of Cheyene.
Two years later, foster care called Ashley and asked if she would please provide emergency foster care to Kaiden. His mother was in prison. She picked him up from the hospital when he was a day old. They never moved him from her home. After a year, his birth mother’s rights were severed. Ashley has been anxiously and patiently waiting to adopt him since that time. Ashley has never been in trouble with the law. She is not cohabitating. She does not use drugs or alcohol. She takes excellent care of her two children. She is exactly what our foster system in asking for.
At 4:45 on a Monday, Ashley pulled into the courtyard of Cheyene’s daycare on a cold day and noticed that Kaiden was asleep, secured in his car seat in the backseat of her car. She put the car in park, ran in the door of the center, and got her 4 year old. All in under 60 seconds. While she was out of the car, a man jumped in and drove off with Kaiden inside. The car was subsequently abandoned a few blocks away and found 90 minutes later with Kaiden unharmed. How many parents have run in to pay for gas, returned the grocery cart, or dropped off the cleaning? Isn’t having your child kidnapped enough of a consequence. We have all learned from her mistake.
Ashley was charged with felony endangerment of a child and has never been allowed to see Kaiden again. She has been told that she will most likely loose custody of both children. This is a ridiculous overreaction Laws are not black and white. Unnecessarily removing children from a loving environment is abusive. These are the decisions that discourage good individuals from becoming foster parents and bring a deep sadness to us all.
As the adoptive mother of three children, I am outraged by this action. No one, parent or child, genetic, fostered or adopted, should ever loose their family due to this type of incident. It implies that those making decisions regarding our foster children have lost touch with common sense and compassion. Who benefits from this type of action? The children? The citizens of Arkansas? The mother?
Please do your part to let the public know the whole story and help this family get reunited.
Lisa Hall
llrwhall@sbcglobal.net